Have you found yourself in a place where you have ended the relationship with the Narcissist, have successfully gone no contact but are left to deal with the fact that you are still in love with them?
Are you contemplating giving the relationship with the Narcissist another chance? If so, I want to let you know that many women who have managed to get out of the relationship with the Narcissist have found themselves desiring to reunite. This great desire has its roots in the initial stage that the Narcissist takes you through called “instant intimacy”. In that initial stage, the Narcissist creates the illusion of being in a perfect relationship, one that is so emotionally rewarding that you believe God has sent your knight and shining armor.
Walking away from those that we care for is never an easy task. Especially if we are uncertain as to how we ended up here in the first place. I know first hand that this can be a very uncomfortable position to be in, so let me first commend you for taking a stand for the betterment of YOU! Secondly, it is imperative to come face to face with the truth about the relationship and why no contact (NC) is necessary. Accepting this truth will help if you become tempted to open the door for the Narcissist once they begin hoovering after you implement NC.