Narcissistically Speaking

Hi, I’m Wendy Collier

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A Domestic Violence Advocate that helps Christian Women who are so over Narcissistically Abusive men identify them before getting involved…OR…how to identify if you are already in relationship with one.

November 1, 2020

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The Hidden Betrayal

Why being friends with the Narcissist is never a healthy choice Let’s face it, spending quality time with a friend can truly save the day. A good meal, valued...

February 23, 2021

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Awareness

Had a confrontation with the Narcissists Ex-girlfriend?

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Everything seems to be going well. You haven’t argued and have been spending what appears to be quality time together. You find yourself doing everything in your power to...

January 21, 2021

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Lies We Believe…

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The relationship we have with ourselves and our Lord & Savior Jesus Christ are the two most important relationships that we will ever have. Yes, the relationships we have...

January 2, 2021

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Awareness, Self Love

Not Everyone is of God

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One of the most upsetting things about dating a narcissist for me has been how I was lead to believe he was a mighty man of God…a Believer. I...

December 26, 2020

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Discard by The Narcissist

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The Narcissist will intentionally discard you at the worst possible time in your life. This discard will take place during unfortunate life situations such as losing a job, a...

February 21, 2020

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The Narcissist Is Not Your Friend

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The idea of becoming free from a Narcissistically Abusive relationship but agreeing to be friends is a quite complex decision to make.

February 11, 2020

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The Narcissist, A Real Life Grinch

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If you have dated a narcissist for any length of time, you are definitely aware of their fascination with sabotaging holidays, birthdays, graduations, you name it. Whatever the event,...

December 25, 2019

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What If I Still Love The Narcissist

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Have you found yourself in a place where you have ended the relationship with the Narcissist, have successfully gone no contact but are left to deal with the fact...

October 21, 2019

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Deliverance

Mood Boosting Recipe

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YIELD: 2 TO 4 Thai Coconut Curry Shrimp Noodle Bowls total time: 35 MINS

February 2, 2020

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Recipes, Self Care

Mood Boosting Recipes For a Happier You

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This honey garlic shrimp recipe is quick and easy to prepare. Ready in 20 minutes, this healthy dinner will join your regular dinner rotation. Serve with brown rice and...

January 12, 2020

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Recipes, Self Care

Can Worship Help Heal From Narcissistic Abuse?

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Last night I listened to one of my favorite gospel music groups, Worshipmob. I sang along (off-key of course), worshipped God and gave Him my praise, with tears streaming

December 25, 2019

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Self Care

Torn about leaving the Narcissist?

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If you find yourself at a crossroad pertaining to the destiny of your relationship with the Narcissist, I completely get it. May I suggest taking an honest assessment of the relationship? Taking an honest assessment forces you to consider the facts, everything that is true about the relationship and not what you hope for the relationship to be. It requires that you know longer make excuses for the Narcissist and that you call their behavior exactly what it is, abusive.

Narcissistic Rage (Walking on Eggshells)

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Once the Narcissist is confident in the fact that you have fallen in love with them, the devaluation stage begins. In this stage, the narcissist will become outraged by even the smallest of things. Wherein the idealization stage you were the best thing smoking, in the devaluation stage, not so much. The Narcissist will begin to negatively criticize you and imply that you are inadequate to carry out the simplest of task.

The Revenge of the Narcissist

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When you have been emotionally tormented by the Narcissist, it is normal to find within yourself a burning desire to get the Narcissist back for what they have done to you. This burning desire can cause you to obsess over the mistreatment as oppose to partaking in the actions that lead to healing and deliverance from the emotional trauma associated with the detestable acts of the Narcissist. The problem with obsessing over what the Narcissist did to you is that it paralyzes you and keeps you bound. In order to break free from the Narcissist completely, it is imperative to turn the Narcissist over to the vengeance of God. God has promised revenge on your behalf so you must trust Him to do so.