Narcissistically Speaking

What Just Happened…

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The realization that the man you were convinced was your soulmate is, in fact, a Narcissist can be quite overwhelming. The inner flood of emotions stirring up within can leave you wondering if you will ever recover from such a betrayal. How could someone be so cruel? Did he ever truly love me or was it all a lie? How did I not know...

November 18, 2019

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Discard by The Narcissist

The Narcissist will intentionally discard you at the worst possible time in your life. This discard will take place during unfortunate life situations such as losing a job, a...

February 21, 2020

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Awareness

The Narcissist Is Not Your Friend

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The idea of becoming free from a Narcissistically Abusive relationship but agreeing to be friends is a quite complex decision to make.

February 11, 2020

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Awareness

The Narcissist, A Real Life Grinch

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If you have dated a narcissist for any length of time, you are definitely aware of their fascination with sabotaging holidays, birthdays, graduations, you name it. Whatever the event,...

December 25, 2019

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Awareness

What If I Still Love The Narcissist

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Have you found yourself in a place where you have ended the relationship with the Narcissist, have successfully gone no contact but are left to deal with the fact...

October 21, 2019

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Deliverance

A Heart Healthy Recipe

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This heart-healthy recipe is loaded with beneficial fat and fiber, plus it features the perfect mix of flavors and textures, thanks to the avocados, beans, citrus, tomatoes, scallions and...

February 8, 2020

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Recipes, Self Care

INGREDIENTS 1/4 c. extra-virgin olive oil Juice of 1 lemon 1/4 tsp. cumin Kosher salt Freshly ground black pepper 3 avocados, cubed 1 pt. cherry tomatoes halved 1 small cucumber, sliced into half-moons 1/3...

February 2, 2020

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Mood Boosting Recipe

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YIELD: 2 TO 4 Thai Coconut Curry Shrimp Noodle Bowls total time: 35 MINS INGREDIENTS 3 tablespoons coconut oil 1/2 pound raw peeled and deveined shrimp, patted dry 1/2 sweet onion, sliced 1/2 red bell pepper, sliced 1/2 orange bell pepper, sliced 1/2 teaspoon salt...

February 2, 2020

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Recipes, Self Care

Torn about leaving the Narcissist?

by Narcissistically Speaking

If you find yourself at a crossroad pertaining to the destiny of your relationship with the Narcissist, I completely get it. May I suggest taking an honest assessment of the relationship? Taking an honest assessment forces you to consider the facts, everything that is true about the relationship and not what you hope for the relationship to be. It requires that you know longer make excuses for the Narcissist and that you call their behavior exactly what it is, abusive.

Narcissistic Rage (Walking on Eggshells)

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Once the Narcissist is confident in the fact that you have fallen in love with them, the devaluation stage begins. In this stage, the narcissist will become outraged by even the smallest of things. Wherein the idealization stage you were the best thing smoking, in the devaluation stage, not so much. The Narcissist will begin to negatively criticize you and imply that you are inadequate to carry out the simplest of task.

The Revenge of the Narcissist

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When you have been emotionally tormented by the Narcissist, it is normal to find within yourself a burning desire to get the Narcissist back for what they have done to you. This burning desire can cause you to obsess over the mistreatment as oppose to partaking in the actions that lead to healing and deliverance from the emotional trauma associated with the detestable acts of the Narcissist. The problem with obsessing over what the Narcissist did to you is that it paralyzes you and keeps you bound. In order to break free from the Narcissist completely, it is imperative to turn the Narcissist over to the vengeance of God. God has promised revenge on your behalf so you must trust Him to do so.