Hello!

Welcome to Narcissistically Speaking, a space dedicated to helping Christian women identify and overcome narcissistic abuse so they can go from repeatedly becoming entangled in toxic relationships to walking in the freedom and love found in Jesus Christ.

My Story: From Bondage to Breakthrough

For years, I found myself trapped in a painful cycle, dating the same man over and over again. The faces were different, but the toxic patterns and narcissistic behaviors were always the same. Each relationship left me drained, broken, and asking the same question: Why do I keep ending up here?

One day, in the midst of my frustration, I cried out to God, Why do I keep choosing these kinds of men?  Little did I know, that question would set in motion a journey that would change my life.

Not long after, I became homeless. At the time, it felt like my world was falling apart, but God was actually putting the pieces together. He placed me in the homes of family members and friends who initially seemed like a refuge. But as I lived with them, one by one, He revealed the truth—they, too, were narcissists.

Then God revealed something even deeper. I had grown up in a toxic and narcissistic environment. Though painful, it had become my norm. Without realizing it, I had been conditioned to accept behaviors that should never have been acceptable. The chaos, the manipulation, the hurt-these were the waters I grew up swimming in. So, when I encountered those same traits in relationships, I stayed. It felt familiar. It felt like home.

It was a hard truth to face, but it was the truth I needed. God began to reveal to me the patterns, behaviors, and spiritual roots of narcissistic abuse. Through His Word, He showed me how I had been unknowingly tolerating and excusing toxic behavior, all while yearning for the love and validation only He could provide.

As I embraced the truth-no longer denying or making excuses-I found freedom. God gave me the strength to walk away from every toxic relationship in my life. He replaced the lies I believed about myself with His promises, teaching me my worth and identity in Him.

My Mission

I know what it feels like to be entangled in toxic relationships and unsure how to break free. That’s why I’m committed to helping Christian women recognize the signs of narcissistic abuse, embrace God’s truth, and walk boldly into the freedom He has for them. Whether you’re just starting to see the cracks or are ready to reclaim your freedom, I’m here to guide you.

Where to Start

Download My Free Checklist: 7 Ways Narcissistic Men Weaponize the Faith of Christian Women

Explore My Book: Narcissistically Speaking - A powerful resource to help you uncover the truth about narcissistic relationships.

Join My Course: A Step-by-step program to help you break free from narcissistic abuse and walk in freedom.

You’re Not Alone

God’s truth has the power to break every chain. If He did it for me, He can do it for you. Start your journey to freedom today, knowing you’re supported by someone who understands and a God who never fails.

Wendy